44 Fun Questions to Ask Your Lover

Heather Long
Contributor: Tamsen Butler
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Have you ever made a list of questions to ask your significant other? Fun questions are a way to pass the time on long drives, or just to get to know each other better. They're also a great way to challenge your significant other's knowledge of you or times you've shared.

Fun Questions to Ask About Quirks

Does your lover have quirks you don't know about? Do you have quirks you want him or her to know? These are questions about the little things you may or may not have observed. Sometimes the best conversations happen from the simplest questions, and these are funny questions to ask your girlfriend or boyfriend. Take time getting to know your lover or a potential lover better.

  1. Do you have to have your closet doors open or closed when you go to sleep?
  2. Have you ever taken bottles of shampoo or conditioner from a hotel?
  3. Do you sleep with your legs tucked under the blankets or one foot out?
  4. Have you ever stolen anything before?
  5. Would you rather be attacked by a grizzly or a nest of hornets?
  6. Have you ever counted your steps while you walk?
  7. Do you ever dance even if there's no music playing?
  8. Do you watch cartoons?
  9. If you had to bury treasure where would you hide it?
  10. What is your spirit animal?

Ten Questions to Start a Conversation

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If those questions are too silly, you may just need some conversation starters. Even in long-term relationships, sometimes you need something to talk about other than work, bills, or relationship issues. To start a conversation, try these questions:

  1. Do you drink before, during or after the meal?
  2. Do you like hot drinks on hot days?
  3. What's the most perfect dipping sauce?
  4. What movie are you embarrassed to admit you love?
  5. What is the worst thing you've ever eaten for breakfast?
  6. Do you still dress up for Halloween?
  7. Do you want to dress up for Halloween?
  8. Have you ever changed your plans because of your horoscope?
  9. Do you like Lincoln Logs or Legos?
  10. Do you prefer Nintendo, Xbox, or PlayStation?

Questions to Help You Date

Fun questions can help you identify whether a flirtation is ready to go to the next level. In fact, fun questions can help you flirt with a fresh face while at a party, in class, or on a coffee break at the office. Light and teasing questions help you find something to say.

  1. Do you prefer Trevor Noah or Stephen Colbert?
  2. What's your favorite soap opera?
  3. If Batman and Superman fought, who would win?
  4. Do you like to sing in the shower or the car when no one is around?
  5. Do you place an angel or star on the top of your Christmas tree?
  6. Which store has the best shopping: Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart?
  7. Can you wiggle your nose or your ears?
  8. Have you ever read a romance novel?
  9. What was the last contest you entered?
  10. Do you cry at movies?

Fun Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

When it comes to keeping conversation thriving with your girlfriend, try some of these fun questions to keep things interesting. Here are some fun questions to ask a girl you're in a relationship with.

  1. If I were writing a list of "questions to ask my girlfriend," what should the first question be?
  2. What have been the defining moments in your life so far?
  3. What is your first memory?
  4. Do you have any random questions to ask me?
  5. When was the last time you laughed so hard you belly hurt?
  6. Someone walks in a room and you smile from ear to ear; who is the person?
  7. What's the strangest ice cream flavor you've ever tried?

Fun Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

Though the fun questions to ask girlfriends can work for boyfriends too, here are some more questions to ask him that will keep the conversation going with the man in your life.

  1. If you were a super hero, what would your power be?
  2. What's the best thing about being you?
  3. When you sleep, do you prefer the room to be chilled or warmed?
  4. Who is the funniest person you know?
  5. You're invited to lunch with a person you've always wanted to meet; who is it?
  6. What grosses you out?
  7. What is your favorite holiday?

Have a Little Fun

The best way to get to know someone is to find out what makes them tick, and you can learn more about your lover and let him/her know about you with these fun questions. Sometimes, the simplest questions can open the biggest doors to more deep and intimate questions. Remember, dating should be fun and asking these kinds of questions can lead to some interesting and entertaining conversations.

44 Fun Questions to Ask Your Lover