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Thanks for adding your thoughts and advice "Best to wait"!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Sick to Death, Don't feel bad at all. I was with my high school sweetheart for 6 years and really wanted to get married but I was not in love with him. I did not know what being in love was until he actually came along. Fortunately for you, you have not married this guy. Take your time because as soon as you hit 25 you will start to discover who you are. That is why your questioning the relationship. Best to just wait two more years to see if you still feel like he is the love of your life. I thought I was in love but one day I got fed up with him and never looked back. 8 months later I meet my boyfriend who I am truly in love with. Everyone around me sees the love on my face when I saw his name or think of him. I have stronger feelings now then I did 3 years ago. He works hard to do little things to make sure I think he will be a good husband. He makes me coffee and a smoothies every single day just because he wants to. Everyday I fall in love with him again. Now it is not a question as to whether he will marry me..I already know he is. If your not sure...forget it! just move on!

-- Contributed by: Best to wait

Hi Sick to Death,

It seems as though your boyfriend is just not quite there yet. You said that you've given him an ultimatum but it didn't work. What do you mean by this? If you said, "If you don't propose this year, I am leaving you." and you didn't leave him, then you're ultimatum isn't really one. You may have to take a break from the relationship to let him figure out how much he wants you to stay in his life. Remember, set him free, if it's meant to be, he will come back to you. Good luck to you.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

I've been with my boyfriend for over seven years. Mind you we are high school sweethearts, but still! All my friends are getting engaged after two-three years of being with their boyfriends. I understand the money issue and have even said it doesnt matter on ring size and we dont even have to get married immediately! I've tried putting a deadline and he insists he is just not ready. My younger sister has gotten a promise ing from her boyfriend of one year!!! I'm sick to death of waiting!? What else am I supposed to do! All I can do is look up wedding stuff as if I'm gonig to get married tomorrow! I'm more than ready! :-(

-- Contributed by: Sick to death

Bored of it all, this is the time you should really talk to him about how you feel and where you want the relationship to go. You might check out: Barriers to Communication and How to Get Him to Propose for some tips.

-- Contributed by: HVLong

i have been waiting 5 years - sick and tired of "discussing" marriage - its gonna happen we both want it i know that but seriously wtf? i want a husband not a boyfriend and before some spastic comes on and starts with the she just wants the ring - no. i want to be a family i want to stop wasting this time on his silly worries like money etc because that should not matter when 2 ppl love each other. i have been waiting for his comfort to shift because this seems, from what ive heard, for guys to wake up and realise that they might lose the one they love. i really dont think i can do this to him. i am totally and utterly exhausted of waiting and everyone else getting engaged is not really helpful to me right now - good luck to you 2 but im sure that you'll get there before me!

-- Contributed by: Bored of it all

you think that's bad! I've been with mine for 6 and I am still waiting!! :(

-- Contributed by: Enter your name here

im sick of waiting!!! It has been 4 years!!

-- Contributed by: Sick Of Waiting
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