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Hi Maria,

Might be! It's hard to say without having some more information. Is he making excuses to be around you or going out of his way to do things for you? Just watch him and how he interacts with you to find out if he likes you. If that doesn't help, you could always let him know how you feel and see if he responds the same.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

i need help on figureing out if a guy likes me or not. he's sending me mixed signals...i don't know what to do! on sunday he played the piano for me....is this flirting? Please help!!!!! :)

-- Contributed by: maria

teen dating is normal but violence twards your girl freind/boy freind is just wrong. people who do things like that do it because their life is a reck and they take it out on them. a gf/bf is their for you to love and care for you. and if your so selfish that you caint care for your lover then why even bother going out? but yeah teen dating is very serious but no parents are to grown up to notice!!!!!!

-- Contributed by: The Sex-c Blue Beasts

Wow Nick, you CHOOSE to be miserable! You seem to be pretty firm on the belief that things won't change. Do you want to live the rest of your life like this??? Do you actually enjoy feeling ugly and feeling like you can't get a girl? I assume your answer is, "NO I WANNA CHANGE"!. You need to change your attitude. IM sure that's why you've been rejected in the past even though you claim to be somewhat attractive, girls can see your insecurities. Do you think a girl would be attracted to a guy who thinks he's ugly? HELL NO! DUH! Stop making excuses and start changing the way you see yourself. Build your confidence and continue to build healthy relationships with other girls. At the right time, your perfect girl will come.And also, the problem is not the shallowness of teen girls, absolutely not. I've seen beautiful teen girls date questionable and rather ugly guys. The problem is YOU! You are the solution to your own problem. If you don't believe anything I say, then have fun feeling ugly and being unsucessful with girls your ENTIRE LIFE!!! But otherwise, change and you will see some amazing things happen in your life.

-- Contributed by: Josh

Nick,

I am sure you have heard the saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder." What this means to you, is that not everyone will feel the same about your looks as you do. If you think you are ugly, most likely you act as if you are ugly. That alone can make a huge difference. I recommend you read some of the advice our dating coach has given other guys who are constantly rejected. Check out these links:

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

I didn't find this at all helpful. Me being ugly can't get a date whether its with a close friend or someone i've only just met because teenage girls are so shallow, they don't care about a guys personality, just whats on his face. I believe its because a girl would be too ashamed to be seen with an ugly guy in public. I know from experience because however often someone says "be friends first" if your ugly, she would be ashamed to be seen with you in public. SOURCE- I'm nearly 17, i am very athletic, kind, caring, easy to talk to (all said from girls) and i have a chance of getting a record deal next February. But i always get rejected, never been on a date, never been kissed etc despite all these good qualities, i can't get a date because i am ugly and i can't see any problem with me apart from my face. And that is that.

-- Contributed by: Nick

Kelli,

You are basically in the position of the "other woman" at this point. Is that what you want? Check out some of this advice before you decide...

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

Gillian,

I think you were looking for our expert on the Teens site at LoveToKnow. Katie can be found there... http://teens.lovetoknow.com/Main_Page

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

My ex-bf has a new g/f. But i still love him. The other night he called me and i was crying and he told me that he honestly still was in love with me. He said that he is just confused. But hen if he loves mwe than why does he have a new g/f. He even cried it made him cry that i was so hurt because he was so confused. But he pays a lot of attention to me and he gives me hugs every day in school, but i just don't understand how he has a g/f and loves me Help!!!!

-- Contributed by: Kelli

Katie, i was reading you're advice before and i think you could help with with this becasue you seem to understand how everything really goes down. My best friend is a guy and we've been friends for a couple of years and recently we dedcided to "practice kiss" eachother becuase i hadn't been kissed before. that all went pretty well but lately he's made comments about doing it again. I don't like him that way but i think i'd be fun. Is this increditably wrong of us? Especially since i like another guy? Please anything will help. Thank you.

-- Contributed by: Gillian

very good article for a a argument!

-- Contributed by: tanya

Confussed, thanks for the question. There are 18 year olds whom date 15 year olds. The maturity gap can be fairly significant depending upon the individuals involved. There is often a concern than one or both people are using the relationship for physical reasons only. I suggest going slow and starting out as friends first before getting seriously involved.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

Is it wrong for a 15 and an almost 18 year old to date?

-- Contributed by: confussed

Meka, thanks for the question. Every relationship needs to be evaluated on a case-by-case basis. In general though, I think a 16 or 17 year old dating someone in their early 20's is not a good idea. The difference in maturity level can be sometimes be significant for those ages. The main concern is the teen getting hurt emotionally or physically. I would want to know why the 20-something is interested in dating someone so young. If they have been friends for many years that is one thing, but if they only recently met, I'd be suspicious of the 20 year olds motives.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

WHat is your advice on teens (16 & 17) dating young adults (early 20's)

-- Contributed by: Meka

This artical clearly and accurately explains everything that I needed to know. I may only be fourteen, but I'm creeping up on that time when I will start to date. All of this information was great and now I feel more confident about dating and talking to my parents about rules and guidelines. I'm not as scared to have the "sex" conversation with my mom either, and now I will actually listen to her and respect that she knows alot more than I do.

-- Contributed by: natalie esterberg
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