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Micaela, Take your time and enjoy it. Also, please refer back to the article for some great tips!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

I have met a 64-year old man and I am wondering how to make him feel comfortable. He has let me know that he is sexually active and sounds like he loves it. We haven't been together yet but I know it's coming. I feel turned on with him. What do I do??

-- Contributed by: Micaela

Terry, sexual needs adjust over the years. A marriage counselor should be able to facilitate a conversation between you and your wife. Good luck and thank you for visiting Love To Know Dating.

-- Contributed by: HVLong

I am a 63 year old man. I am married but we virtually never have intercourse. I love her, very much. We have been married over 40 years. I do not find her unattractive but I seldom have sexual interest in her. I masturbate 3 to 5 days a week and 1 to 3 times a day and very much enjoy it. Perhaps a marriage counselor would work? What do you suggest.

-- Contributed by: Terry

Margaret,

As hard as it may be for you boyfriend (as many men hate doctors and hate to talk about sexual problems), he needs to talk over his problems with a doctor. Most likely that will be the only way to find a solution to his difficulties.

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

Laura,

Based on the research I found, sperm count can temporarily be lowered by excessive alcohol. But, usually, drinking too much causes more of a problem with performance, than semen.

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

i have been with my boyfreind 12years always had a good sex life.hes 59 im 49.he has arthritis in his knee.drinks alot.past 6to8 mounths not has highly sexed has he was,hes usually very highly sexed,its seems harder to get a errection.he said its gone smaller,his penis.can yu help.

-- Contributed by: margaret

I am dating a man in his early forties- I am curious about how his alcohol problem will affect his semen. Laura Voyles Illinois

-- Contributed by: Laura Voyles

Susie T,

I have moved your question to our dating coach's column at Ask the Dating Coach.

Thanks!

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

Dear Dating Coach: I have been dating a 60 + man for 1 1/2 years. I am in my mid-50's. We are discussing marriage, but we have two problems: (1) his son (mid thirties) son disapproves of me. In fact, we were scheduled to be married 3 times and had to cancel each time because my boyfriend's son "couldn't get the time off". He will not allow me into his home. Second problem is money. I am not employed and am looking for work in the area I live. My boyfriend tells me to seek employment in the area HE lives. I say that is not reasonable because I do not live in his area, hence a catch-22 situation. I will not move in with him unless we are married. After we marry, he has asked that I sell my home and put the money toward his residence (he had to take out a large amount to pay off his ex). For this I would receive "proportionate equity" but my name would apparently not be on the title. Please advise.

-- Contributed by: Susie T

I totally agree with Assya rash, I am 23 and my boyfriend is 51. He is amazing. He is in incredible shape and he turns me on just as much as I turn him on. Everything is amazing and he is always willing to please.

-- Contributed by: Monica

I am a 24year old girl and my boyfriend is 48. I had to leave a comment and say that I have never been as satisfied as i am with him! I had dated guys in their twenties or early thirties but none of them could compare to the greatness of my current 48year old boyfriend. The refractory period (the time needed after orgasm, before another erection can occur) is usually 5-10mns and sex lasts hours!!

For girls who are hesitant when they meet someone older, i say go ahead and try it! I AM FULFILLED!!

-- Contributed by: Assya rash
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