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Me,

At the 13, yes you are too young to have to sex. You should talk to your parents and while they may not want to hear it, you shouldn't be taking on the responsibilities of maintaining a sexual relationship when you are still figuring out who you are. There are inherent health issues when you have sex including pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases and self-esteem. Talk to your parents or to another adult that you trust. Thanks for visiting Love To Know Dating and good luck.

-- Contributed by: HVLong

hi,im 13 and i recently had sex i want to know was i to young.

-- Contributed by: me

Sex too soon is liberating if you just have physical needs because you know he will pull away, most likely in a way that shows his doubts. No guessing after that, his behavior will make him easy to leave if you are a confident person. Not too messy. Or he will get WARMER. The second is not likely to happen. Guys these days use electronic means of finding women so quickly discard women without giving it a second thought. So if you want to create some stomach knotting (fun?) drama then submit when you want to. But I'm sorry to say it shows too many cards..

Picture this. The man you like are at a poker game with two other women. He is wondering what cards you all have. He likes the feeling and excitement.

Now picture if you put your cards face up on the table and say FOLD. Even if you were the most intriguing (beautiful, the best ect) one, Is he gonna want to keep playing the game with you with you? Just send the other women home mid hand and end the game because it was sooo cute you folded and still showed him?

Sometimes! Don't put all your chips in that pot. Wouldn't YOU want to finish the hand to see how big you could win? You know you got a flush girls. Hold it, bet it and be mysterious until he folds like a cheap card table (pun intended lol)

-- Contributed by: Erin Brown

Michelle, thanks for the question. I think you should continue to let him take the lead. However, you might mention that you would like to get to know him better. There is the potential that he assumes all you want is a physical relationship, which is why you might consider bringing this up. The key, in my opinion, will be how soon he asks you out on another date and what happens during that date. A guy that is really interested in you is going to want to see you again soon. If he waits several weeks, it may be because he has physical needs that he is hoping you will satisfy. Go out on this date and have fun together. If at the end of the night he wants to get physical, explain your feelings and see how he responds. He might get mad and blame you for leading him on, but then you'll know what he is really after. But, if he wants something serious as well, then I'm sure he will agree to slow down the physical part of your relationship for the time being.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

Hi,

I am a 35 year old professional who has been single for about the past year. I recently went out on a couple of dates with a man I met through one of the online dating sites. We seem to have alot in common and the physical onncection is strong on both parts. While I have not slept with him in the raditonal sense, we have already spent the night together and were closely intimate. I am very concerned that the physical contact we have shared will skew how he views the potential of any real relationship with me. He does call on occasion to talk, and I have pretty much tried to leave the pursuing to him. I know I cannot turn back time, but how can I keep him intrigued and interested in pursuing a relationhsip on a deeper level?

Thanks

-- Contributed by: michelle
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