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Ok, she could have a medical condition, and should be checked by a good doctor. Both of you should talk to one another about this and see what she should do. And most of all be suportive.

-- Contributed by: Mr. K

since i tried to lose mines so many times it wasnt really that bad for me. dont get me wrong it do hurt wen they first try to get in, but as soon as he in ur cool. Rajeev it sounds like ur gf is not ready.

-- Contributed by: jaz29

Rajeev,

It shouldn't hurt her as bad as you say. Encourage her to see her doctor about it because there might be something else going on. Good luck to you both...

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Marcelina, I have really been very very slow,i've tried doing it with protection & wit protection but its the same.She suffers huge pain & starts shiviring.She is short in height & a bit healthy so do you think that its creating a problem?? We both are virgin but losing virginity for a girl is so painful?Kindly suggest please.

-- Contributed by: rajeev

Rajeev,

The first thing you must remember to do is remain calm and sensitive to your girlfriend's needs. It may be much less painful if you both take it slow and follow her lead.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

I am 28 & my girl friend is 22.we seeing each other from last 5 yrs.now we ready to have sex.once we were making love & while intercourse she suffered huge pain,so i thought that as its the first time so its paining.again i tried it after 10 days but again its the same thing.it pains her so much that she start to shivir.Kindly suggest what to do.we both are virgin.what to do as its getting on my nerves.

-- Contributed by: rajeev

Young and Curious, it's totally natural to be curious and to experience wet dreams. Two things to remember, sex scenes on television and the movies are staged, they are done to maximize the 'look' and the 'intimacy' without the emotions necessarily. Talk to an older woman you trust (your mom, a teacher, a counselor) and accept that this curiousity is a part of your natural development.

-- Contributed by: HVLong

See, I'm 13 and sometimes, watching sex scenes in movies makes me curious and also makes me ask to myself, "how does sex feel like???" I know I might be young but I can't stop myself from having wet dreams at times and I wonder, is this normal for a girl my age?! Is it wrong to be curious about these topics?! Please Help Me!!!

-- Contributed by: youngandcurious

Setshego,

Your mom is just trying to look out for your best interest but sometimes you need to find out for yourself if someone will make you happy. You may want to learn more about this guy before you lose your virginity to him so you know for sure it's what you want to do.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

i am 25 yrs old and i am still a virgin i've been single for 2yrs i just meet the person i would like to spend the rest of my life with the probleam is he is a divorcee and 30 yrs old my mom does not approve being she thinks i deserve more is this because i am a virgin i dont know what to do

-- Contributed by: setshego

Need information,

Everyone is different but yes, some women do have some bleeding and irritation. Be patient with her and she will let you know when she is ready to try it again.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

I need help im a 17yo boy and I had sex with this girl and took her virginity the next day she was in pain and couldn't have sex for awhile and then her period started when we finished. I never sexed a virgin so is this a normal experiance for her?

-- Contributed by: need imformation

Hannah,

If the person you are thinking about losing your virginity to really loves and cares about you then the beauty spot will not have any affect on how he feels about you.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

im a virign and im ready to lose it but im scared that he might reject me we have been togther for 3 years and i have a beauty spot that he dont know about and im really embarssed by it as it is really noticeable any advice

-- Contributed by: hannah

i know last time i wrote on here. and im still with my boyfriend <33 proud of ever second. i cant wait til the 17th !!!! i love u tlb!!

-- Contributed by: amanda

Tasha,

Just as Debbie said, take it easy and make sure the person you are with respects and loves you enough to take things slow.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

im a virgin 2 and i am really scared about the painss, ive found the one i love and ive been with him 4 10months, im ready but just scared! anyone have any advice??

-- Contributed by: tasha

Jessie,

Go slow and relax. Make sure the person you are with respects you and treats you gentle.

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

I am stil a virgin and i realy want my first time 2 be special. I am realy scared that it wil hurt. I dont take pain very wel.anyone have any advice?

-- Contributed by: Jessie

when i lost my virginity. it hurt. but i knew i picked the right person. dnt loose your virginity to anyone. when your loosing your viginty its like giving someone a gift that you love and wanna be with for the rest of your life. We been together for 13 months by the 17th its going to be 14. i feel like this is still the begining chapter with him. cause i surely wanna spend the rest of my life with him. and thats how he exactly feels..true love never dies...and think ahead before loosing your virginity cause thats something precious everyone has..

-- Contributed by: Amanda
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