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You're right Pudensiana - thank you for sharing your thoughts!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Its not easy to make someone fall in love with if that person has no interest in u,its better to let things happen themselves rather than pushing things then get ur heart broken!

-- Contributed by: Pudensiana

Hi Annie,

You can't make someone fall in love with you if he doesn't have those same feelings toward you. Show him that you are interested and if he doesn't show interest in you...it will be time to find someone who will.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Hi! i love a guy ,he is a really good friend of mine. i don't want to loose him ... i want him to fall in love with me too . plz tell me how can i do this.. please help me...

-- Contributed by: Annie

Hi Alexa,

You've showed interest in him and he did not return that. Now the ball is in his court. If he doesn't do anything with this information that you like him, it's time for you to move on and find someone who will like you as much as you like him. Good luck.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Hi! I like my karate teacher for 1 year and half,i was hoping that one day i can make him to like me and make a move.Since he didn`t,i made a crazy thing and ask him for a one night stand with me.He didn`t accept it, and he was shoked by the straight way to ask.I was waiting to long so i thought that straight way will be easy .I should give up?Try again later but with a diffrent strategy?

-- Contributed by: Alexa

Hi Doll,

There's nothing you can really do to get him to want to save your relationship. You probably want some answers about the way he has been acting. The easiest way to know is ask him. If he refused to tell you than just back off (as hard as that might be). It takes two people to have a good relationship and you don't need someone who doesn't want to be with you. Move on and find someone you deserve...

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

hey, well me and this guy have been in a relationship for over a year. were very close and i've been making him jelous recently... not on purpose, but anyways, he's being really off with me :/ so i'm becoming slightly obsessive D: i keep trying to ring him and sort things out but he's still not being the same as before and i'm sick of making the effort all he time. how do i get him to say can we sort this out ? help! thankyouuu x

-- Contributed by: doll

Too much too fast, It may be too late to save the relationship if he's already decided to move on. Take this experience as a lesson so you know what NOT to do next time. Good luck to you!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Hi! I met a guy online. We became 'physical' very fast because of the safety of it being just virtual. It has been 1month. I have not seen him online for almost 1week now. I've sent him several messages and emails.

I became obsessive. Went to the white pages and started searching out his name. I failed in finding anything.

Thus my nick, too much too fast. The last I saw him, I told him I cried for him. I think that may have scared him off.

I have calmed down now. How can I still salvage the relationship?

-- Contributed by: too much too fast

Danielle,

It's wise not to interfere in someone's relationship. If he truly cares for you and wants to be with you, he would leave his girlfriend. You may have to give him an ultimatum (it's either you or her).

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

But what if the two of you have this strong connection and yet...he hasn't left his girlfriend? And you know that this is the man for you... how do I get him to breakup with her? Without screwing us up??

-- Contributed by: Danielle

Maringa,

If you don't want to come in between him and his girlfriend, you need to make it clear to him that you will not be able to see him until he has made a decision to break things off with his current girlfriend.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

I recently met a wonderfull guy. We have both feelings of attraction to one another but he's got a girlfriend. We train together so what am I suppose to do just forget the feelings or what. Im no HOme Recker!!

-- Contributed by: maringa

Alicia,

Sure! Just respect his wishes and give him some time. Don't continue to pressure him or it will take a toll on your relationship.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

I have been dating a great guy for about 2 months and this weekend I put too much pressure on our relationship, telling him that I was looking for a long term commitment. He said he loved being with me but was recently out of a commitment. I think I messed up and am looking to backpeddel now. Is there any saving this??

-- Contributed by: Alicia

Miranda,

Six months is still a long time from now so wait until closer to that time before deciding what to do. If you are still together by then, talk to him about your fears and come to a decision about the possibility of continuing the relationship long distance. Check out our new section Category:Advice on Online Relationships for articles on long distance relationships. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

hello! so i mat this amazing guy in NY..he seems to enjoy my company and i do as well... but i also know that he ll be leaving to florida in about 6 month, and afraid to get hurt... what should i do?

-- Contributed by: Enter your name here

JV,

Sounds like your boyfriend may have some commitment issues. You can either stick it out and see if it changes or end the relationship. Try talking to him about the way you feel to see what might be preventing him from taking your relationship to the next stage.

Vivienne,

Follow your heart, do what you feel is best for you and what makes you happy.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

i have been with my bofriend for a year and three months and im totally in love with him but he is always unsure if he wants to be with me. what should i do?

-- Contributed by: jv

Av been datin a guy 4 four years now nd d guy doesnt even no a tin abt me.nd i met dis other boy who appears 2 be very nice nd is gettin 2 no me.i thought i was in luv cuz i had 2 brk up wit d oda guy bt now he annoys me nd i found out dat am in stil in luv wit d first guy who wnts me back nd ready 2 do anytin.so wat shud i do?

-- Contributed by: Vivienne

Hey Bria, Smile at him when you see him in the halls, but if he keeps ignoring you outside of the extra-curricular class, then start ignoring him in it! Its not mind games, it's having self-respect. And if he fights to keep in your attention then that's up to him.

As to the other guy, never date someone just to have a boyfriend. So if you cannot see yourself with him, then just be friends.

-- Contributed by: Pezzy

Hi i am qitong There is 2 guy i like and one break up ler he love me but my sis also love a upper sec malay guy lar so he love is my sis so now another guy is my classmate he very funny always make me laugh and i also dnt knw wheter i like him ornot cos i am missing him i am getting to see him in a weeks i'm afraid and worried and just hope that it not happen

-- Contributed by: qitong

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-- Contributed by: nakiyacullom

Hey. I'm Bria. I'm in a bit of a predicament. (Love that word. >.<) There is a guy I like at shcool and he goes to my extra cirricular class. I think he's really nice and I'm not sure but I think he flirts with me. He is soooo uber adorible and I would definatly love to date him. Unfortuneatly, There are two other guys I like too. One I know for sure he likes me. He is my ex. We only broke up because I had to move to another school. I recently transferred back and I have, like, seven people a day come up to me and say he still likes me. He's also very nice and I find him absolutly adorible but, I can't find him and I in a serious realationship (Like kissing and dates.) The last one also goes to my extra cirricular class. He is a grade older and kind of intimidates me. He's really confident and kind of ...y (But in a cute sort of way.) I could definatly find him in a long-term relationship. I'm Just kind of scared because alot of dating advice says not to date older guys. But he's only a half a year or so older and is always and age above me. He didn't notice me in school when I passed him on the way to gym. But in our Extra cirricular he and I flirt shamelessly. I'm sooo torn! WE have an upcoming Valentines day dance extrely soo! If you could please help! Please Help!

-- Contributed by: Brianna S. H.

i wish i could find a guy that im happy with.yea ive met alot of guys that are awesome.but i guess im doin all the opposite of what you guys just said not to do.and thats why i lose them all.but alot of guys base the relationship on sex.i dont think that is right.even though sex is nice and very fun.but i just think theres more to a relationship then just sex.

-- Contributed by: HEATHER

Sonia, I'm sorry to hear that this guy is bothering you. Yaz and Brianna have some good advice, but I have to question where this quy loves you like he says he does. As hard as it may be for you, it might be best to give him some space and pull away a little from him. If he is really intersted in you, he won't enjoy being apart and the distance may help him to realize that he really does love you.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

smile and make sure he knows that you are still in to him don't be bossy or too shy. make him feel special but not to the extent were he rules you.

-- Contributed by: Yaz

FIND THE REAL NICE THINGS TO SAY TO HIM LIKE HOW YOU LOOK REALLY GOOD, OR YOU SMELL REALLY NICE YOU KNOW GUYS LIKE COMPLEMENTS TOO.

-- Contributed by: Brianna

i need help...im in love with this guy and he loves me but he doesnt seem like it and its botherin me..like we broke up more then once </3

-- Contributed by: sonia
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