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Hi Scarlett,

The question here is who does the boy like? If he likes you, then you are good to go. If he likes your friend, then you have no other choice but to move on and find someone else. It is crummy that your friend started to like him even though she knows you did. You might want to reconsider your friendship with her too. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Hi Lori, I like a boy at school and so does my friend even though she knew i liked him from year 2!! Scarlett

-- Contributed by: scarlett

Thank you for your suggestions!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Here are a few rules for flirting with a woman: 1. Use flattery- but don't be supplicant 2. Make direct eye contact - Be alpha man 3. Play questions game 4. Speak with confidence 5. Share your life experiences- like mystery's photo routine. 6. Whisper 7. Using nicknames. 8. Push and Pull - Leave her wanting more.

-- Contributed by: Tanay ...ar Das

Hi Jordan,

Flirting online is much easier than flirting in person. You can try to tell him that you think he's cool and send a lot of smiles to him. If you want to flirt in person, read these articles:

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Hi Lori,

I'm really confused. I have a crush on this guy who used to talk to me quite allot, but not really at school. Usually just on the computer or something only occasionally at school. But now he is only in two of my classes and we barley talk even online. I say something like 'hey' he goes 'hai' or whatever then when i ask sup~ he always says stuff like ntm hw tried and ERGH.

He doesn't do this 2 everyone else. Well I was hoping u could give me some flirting/talking tips that I could say to him in person or online because I would find it very useful considering for camp were both going to malaysia and he is the only person i know in my group (likewise for him he only knows me)

I don't know if he stopped liking me as a friend or just stopped liking me as a crush if he ever did like me... He puts 'xx' or 'mwa' or something at the end of a convo online SOMETIMES and he says I am one of his friends to other ppl but i cant exactly tell :S

-- Contributed by: Jordan

Hi Brianna,

You mentioned that he doesn't want to go out with you. You can't make him go out with you if he doesn't want to - no matter how much you flirt with him. It sounds like he have done everything you can to let him know you are interested. He may just be playing the field right now and not interested in having a girlfriend. As far as your question about pupil size, it may be an indication that he likes you but also of excitement. Excitement can come from just having fun with girls like he is having with you. Be careful of your emotions...it sounds like you've dove head first into this and he may not be feeling the same way about you.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Dear Lori, Okay, well there is a guy, Mikey, and i have a crush on him. We went out before, twice. We just got back into school. I don't know if it's just a little crsuh from not seeing him, in for about 3 months. But i have had people tell me i flirt with him, and i dont noticed i do. When were in gym, he usually comes and sits next to me instead of his bestfriend. He plays with my braclet and watch on my wrist. He also pokes me and like play punches me. He said he likes, but that he doesnt want to go out with me. BUT I DO!! I really dont know how to flirt, because when i am around him... i mean im a very outgoing person.. but when i guess we 'flirt' i get super nervous and red. I want some simple ways how to flirt and know how i can figure out if her likes me? OH! i dont if this affects, but he is shorter than me... and uhh... by much. does that affect anything? Also he is also very outgoing, he pokes and plays around with girls... but he told me he likes me and he flirts with like a lot of eye contact. I read that if you look into his eyes and his pupils get big that means he likes you. is that true? THANKS!! :)

-- Contributed by: --Briana

Hi Sabrina,

You need to be more assertive. Step up to him and start some conversation! Showing him who you really are will increase your chances of him noticing you in a new way. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Dear Lori,

Ok so I obviously like this guy(aaron) that last year, I thought of as just a friend and now I think of him more than that. Hes so funny and cute and totally sweet. Alot of other popular girls like him but they are really werird and dress like with booty shorts and tiny tops. WE have first period together and Im friends with HIS friends. So his friends think of me as cool and funny. I sit right next to one of his friends and aaron always looks back and makes jokes so of course, sometimes I see him looking at me and ive smiled at him acouple of times. I just dont know what to do. I cant tell if he likes me or what he even thinks of me. We dont really talk to much because too many girls like him and are always around him. Please help make me stand out?

-- Contributed by: Sabrina

Hi Undefined,

It sounds like what you have been doing with him is flirting and he is flirting back. You can either ask him out on a date, or you can wait for him to ask you. The next time he asks you for your dating status, just nonchalantly say, Why? Are you interested? because in a way, he's trying to tell you that he is. Take a leap of faith on this one and ask him out. Good luck.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Dear Lori, i have a crush on my guy best friend. he's always been there for me, and we're close. i like him very much, more than friends. and i think he likes me too because he always asks about my dating status, and we often playfully quarrell about who i have a crush on. i never dare to tell him. i think he likes me. but i'm scared to move on to the next level- he seems that way, too. is there a way i can flirt and subtly let him know that i would accept if he asks me out? thanks so much for reading.

-- Contributed by: Undefined

Hi Angel,

Please read the following articles for tips on flirting:


-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Dear Lori, 

theres this guy that i like very much and like i have this class with him, and he would like walk pass me and touch on my neck, and sometimes flirt with me. Not that i have a probelm with that its just i dont know how to flirt back, you see im very shy, and sometimes when he try to touch me or flrit i just kinda pull away. I dont try to but it just happens i dont wont him to get the wrong idea or nothing. How can i flirt back what should i do or say.
-- Contributed by: angel

Hi Confused, You may want to check out our article, How do You Know if a Boy Likes You. As far as how to get his number without making it obvious that you have a crush on him -- you may try to just continue to be friendly with him. Eventually, you will feel more comfortable and be able to throw into a conversation, "Hey, you wanna hang out after school?". Good luck.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Dear Lori, i am in the 10th grade and i have the biggest crush on a guy thats in the same grade as me thats also in one of my classes, and he also sits right in front of me. We talk a lot, but its not always just me and him talking, we sit at a table of four and every now and then the other two students that sit at our table include themselves in our conversation, i don't mind because one of the other students is my crush's friend but i can't tell if my crush is flirting with me i have no idea at how to pick up signs from a guy if hes interested in me. I think i am flirtatious toward him like i make jokes, laugh at his jokes, always greet him, am nice to him, and just chat about our weekends. Also he has so many girls that are his friend, like am i turning into just another one of his girl friends? I don't want to embarress myself infront of him, i would just like to know if he feels the same way about me. What are some ways i can tell that he likes me? Also i would like to progress our relationship by asking him for his number except whenever i mean to ask him i get so nervous and trip over my words(of course not in front of him, do you have any advice about how to getting his number without making it too obvious that i have maybe the biggest crush on him?

-- Contributed by: ~~Confused

Jewel,

He may only see you as a friend and that is okay. Hang out with him as you have been and maybe one day he will see you as much more.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

dear lori i am in the 7th grade and there's a guy in the 10th grade but he's one year older than me he is relly smart,relly funny and has a great body but he only see's me as a friend i try to flirt with him but i just can't find the words to say and he just plays with meas a friend and my friend says that i am stuck in the friend zone. thanks for reading.

-- Contributed by: jewel

Em,

Well, if he started to show interest and then that changed, he may have started to either understand that you like him and became shy or he's uninterested and that is his way of telling you. The only way to know for sure is to be bold and start talking to him. This way, you will at least have a friendship started. After that, you can build from there.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Hi! i have this crush on a really cute guy in my year. i try to flirt with him whenever i see him but there is a bit of a problem. he doesnt really know me that well and he is in the other half of the year so i dont see him in any lessons. whenever i pass him in the corridoor or in the canteen, i give him the eye contact and the sweet innocent smile. at the start he really seemed to notice and always smile back,seeming kinda interested but now he walks past. i dont know whether he likes me anymore. Maybe i am not giving him enough attention or he thinks i hav gone off him. I do really really like this guy but i am just sooooo confused. have you got any tips to get me back on track?? thank you

-- Contributed by: em

Hi Nicole,

It's difficult to know for sure if he likes you or not. He could just be a big flirt...or he could just be flirting with you. You could try flirting back using some tips from our article, Flirting Technique. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Hey! I have this crush on this guy. He flirts with me a lot whenever we see each other or we happen to bump to each other. He used to touch my hair and say I'm the cutest. When we first met he asked if I have a boyfriend. Then recently, we barely see each other unlike before. So when I saw him earlier, he was perky as he always and sat on my lap without even my consent. I don't know if he really likes me. 'Cause if he really likes me he should've asked me out or at least call me. It's confusing me. :)Thank you.

-- Contributed by: nicole

RAWR,

Sounds like you would benefit from reading this article: How do You Know if a Boy Likes You.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

hi i have a massive problem. i have jst started a new school about a month ago and i REALLY like this guy who is in the same grade as me but i dnt noe if he likes me back. i always notice him starring at me and when i went for the interview at the school before i came to school his eyes followed me. i ahve never had a bf and really want one and i really like this guy. how do i noe if he likes me or not. RAWR.

-- Contributed by: RAWR.

Jeanessa,

Sounds like he is playing games with you or its his way of flirting. You might want to talk to him about how you feel and see where that leads. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

my crush tells me on im to be friendly to him (since in our school, girls and boys don't get along) i've been being friendly to him, but i think he's the one breaking the deal to be friendly.......he avoids me (how could he? he said we're friends)

-- Contributed by: Jeanessa

Jhenell,

It's hard to say exactly what he is thinking right now. He could be feeling shy now that he knows you know he likes you or he could have lost interest in you and doesn't know how to tell you. Try talking to him about it to see what he says... Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

this boy in my class use to flirt with me ever since he and i are bf and gf i hardly wants to play,touch or talk to me in person only over the phone want to talk to me he is always around other girls and my friends not me whats the problem.HELP ME PLESE

-- Contributed by: jhenell

Sammy,

Check out: How to Flirt with Guys and Flirting Technique for some ideas. Thanks for stopping by Love To Know Dating.

-- Contributed by: HVLong

i havee a boyfriend and he wants me to be more flirty with him but i dont know how to flirt with him to make him feel good, any advices on what i could say by flirting?

-- Contributed by: Sammy

dear lori, I really like my boyfriend(he's a junior and i'm a freshman)and we've been dating for over 3 months but I started to meet a lot of his friends and i think I'm starting to like his best friend(he's a senior)..but his best driest friend thinks my best friend is hot...and I'm going to admit that I'm jealous...what do i do?! im getting bored with my boyfriend but i dont want to brean bis heart but a lot of his friends are waiting for me to be single so they can have me but I really want this senior...so do I break up with my boyfriend and start talking to his friends? and would his best friend start to like me to since I'm single? HELP PLEASE!!!

-- Contributed by: bailey

Brittney,

It may be time to back off and look for someone new. It seems that this situation has become too complicated to move on to something more. Maybe if you do move on to someone else, this guy will realize that you are not obsessed and be more interested in you.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

i really lke this guy but im not really sure if he likes me.he always stares at me and im positive he likes me.but he figured out that i like him a lot and he thinks im obssed with him.but im not and i want to go out with him but i dont know how to prove it to him that im not obsessed with him.and my friend asked him if he liked me and if he would go out wityh me..he said maybe..but the only reason he wont go out with me is because he thinks im obsessed and hes scared to go out with me.i talk to him.but i dont want him to think just really obsessed with him.so what do u think i should do?? thanks ~brittney♥

-- Contributed by: brittney

Hannah,

If you like him, you can smile at him and talk to him when you are around him. Just be his friend and see where that leads.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

h!,

I'm hannah, a sixth grader..i know ds certain guy..eight years ago...coz we're klazmeytz since kindergarten..i have a very BIG crush on him..one of my bestfriend haS also a very big crush on him..and she is flirting with him..but my other bestfriend told me that he likes the two us..but my other bestfriend doesn't like him...but this guy has a huge crush on my other bestfriend..how can i flirt with him???..please help me!!..tnx..

-- Contributed by: ~hannaH~

Quelque (me),

Overcoming your shyness can be tough, try to just start conversation with these girls by saying, "hello" and smile. Once you feel more confident, read these articles on flirting:

Flirting

Flirting Technique

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

i am shy but hot i see a lot of body langauge from different kind of girls but i don't know how to bring it to the point

-- Contributed by: me

Naporsha,

If this guy is involved with another girl, you should back off. Find someone else for now, but you never know what the future will bring.

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

Selena,

Why not ask him? Most likely "half like" means he likes you as a friend. Which is a nice thing for 5th grade! Enjoy his smiles for now.

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

i like this boy . i dance with him but he like some one else

-- Contributed by: naporsha

Hey! Okay there is this guy named Dylan we are in the 5th grade now and last week i told him i liked him he said he half likes me! But he stares at me and smiles all the time we even walk together ! But i wanna go out with him he also said he half liked me what does that mean?

-- Contributed by: Selena

Robyn,

Flirting is often a natural process when we are engaging in conversation with someone we like. This can be true for friends and lovers. Even two heterosexual women will flirt with each other at times.

In your case though, you have a past with this guy. Flirting can easily be misunderstood. I would say, yes, you can just flirt with him -- however, discuss your feelings with him upfront. Be honest and direct, otherwise he is sure to misconstrue your intentions.

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

Hi, I have a really good guy friend that I've actually dated. Well, now we are just good friends, but he still likes me. I like him as well, but I don't really want to date. Is there a way I could flirt with him without suggesting that I want to date?

-- Contributed by: Robyn

Fernanda, unfortunately I don't think his questions prove that he is interested. They are pretty general and he could've just been making conversation with you. If he keeps talking with you and asks you more personal questions, then I would begin to think he is interested.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

Hello. I am really confused (kinda) by this one guy at work. I was attracted to him ever since I first saw him and I'm pretty sure he is attracted to me too (I have caught him looking several times). And the other day, he started talking to me...he asked me several questions about who i am, where i'm from, where else i work...etc. I always prefer to know if the guys i like are taken or not--and this one is taken. I found out from a friend the day after this talk I had with him. He never told me he has a gf.

MY QUESTION IS: how do I interpret this guy's actions if he's already taken? Does it sound like he likes me?? what should i do???? please help. =)

-- Contributed by: fernanda

Matt, I would be happy to answer your question. I think this boy does like you. The way to tell if a boy likes you is to look at how he treats you. Don't focus only on the physical (kissing and stuff). Look also at whether he respects you, cares about you, is there for you, is comfortable around you, etc. Any guy can kiss you and say he likes you. But the boys who really like you will back up his words with thoughtful actions.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

Dear lori, Hi i need some advice i really like this guy i been talking too and what not we been getting to know each other a lot and spending time together we been on dates and hanged out. Like every time we hang out at the end we always end up smiling at each other and he kisses me and holds my hand looks at me like no other eye has ever done before. Like i show him that i like him i let him know in little ways that i really want to be with him and what not but how do i know that he likes me like he does mention that he likes me and all but is there a way to tell?

Thanks

-- Contributed by: matt

Laura, thanks for the question. Flirting isn't really the issue with this guy. You need to ask yourself why you decided to break up with him in the first place? It appears that you may enjoy trying to win him rather than actually dating him. If you believe that breaking up was a mistake and you really want to date him again, you need to tell him exactly how you feel.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

dear lori, i just broke up with this guy 6 days before it would have been a whole year together. hes totally in love in this other girl which makes me love him more:( we r still really good friends but now i have feelings for him and stronger feelings for 1 of his good freinds. how do i flirt? im not a prissy girly girl, however i am a COMPETITIVE cheerleader. i need a ton of help:( im madly in love he is all i think about:) thanks, laura:)

-- Contributed by: laura

Kind of Desperate, I would be happy to answer your question. Your best bet is to approach this boy in the halls, at lunch or after school and start a conversation. You can ask him if he has any plans for summer. If you know any of his friends, talk with them first and find out what he is interested in so you'll know what to talk about. If you already know what classes you'll have next year, see if you'll be sharing a class together. If he is kind of shy, you may need to take the lead for a while. If you're still interested in seeing him after talking, then tell him you'd like to hang out together over the summer and see how he responds. And don't forget, while summer can seem like a long time, Fall will be here shortly and you can try again next school year. Maybe you'll get lucky and have a class with him.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

Katey, I would be happy to answer your question. Starting a new school is hard and flirting at first should be near the bottom of your list of concerns. Focus instead on making friends. As for the boys, if you smile, talk and are friendly the boys will notice you. Once you know which boy(s)you like, then you can start flirting to show your interest.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

Hey Lori,

Okay, I am in MAJOR need of help. School is almost over and I JUST noticed this cute kid in my school. I'm a freshman and as you know, not everyone the same classes and periods, and I have none with this kid, so I havent seen him before until a few weeks ago.

What is the best way to approach him? To get him interested and to like me? I really like him, I know his name and stuff, but he doesnt know mine. We never really see each other except for in the halls and we never talk, save one time when I asked him to fill out a survey for one of my classes.

From what I've observed, he's one of those kids who you never really notice a lot. He's not one of those ...y big shot jock guys, and thank God for that! Hahaha. He's kind of shy, but not that much. I know that his father and mine are from the same country, and I know he lives really close by because I've seen him a few times on my street.

We've had eye contact before in the halls, but I dont know what he's feeling or thinking, or if he made eye contact by mistake or something.

How can I get him interested in me before schools out?? I need HELP! Pleeease help me, Lori! O_O

-- Contributed by: Kind of desperate

For some more tips on flirting... check out these articles:

-- Contributed by: Debbie Vasen

Hey Lori, Ok so, me and my family are about to move to California from Arkansas, and I will be starting out at a new High School as a freshmen. Since it is a high school only, I was curious how would i flirt with a guy best? Since everyone is new how can I stand out to guys? please HELP!

-- Contributed by: Katey

hey lori, i had a big crush on my tutor since the beginning of semester. he is the same age as us and he is an attactive guy. I often remain eye contact with him in class and im always trying to answer his question perfectly every tutorial.plus, i always make up nicely and im totally confident about my outfit. I think i got his attention in his class at least. But im just wondering how to make him interested? i really want to date this cute boy but i dont know what is the most appropriate and subtle way to achieve it. please help.

-- Contributed by: Beanca

I really like this guy. We were in the same 1st grade class together. We play around sometimes but i feel the passion might die out before i hit college. Also I want hime to notice me. What should I do

-- Contributed by: Lexi

Please if eny one knows how to flirt and get a boy friend please e mail me and tell me so i can get one

-- Contributed by: kaylynn

dear Lori i'm in the 11th grade about 3 years ago i joined amrtial arts class and i had the biggest crush on this guy but then i left and sort of forgot about him........but now i met him again and my feelings for him came agian. I always had a problem with flirting with guys i mean he flirted a little(i think) while we were chatting online but thats probably cause he hasn't seen me in a long time.....how do i know if he likes me? and how do i try to make him like me? maybe flirt a little or sumthing pls pls help me!!

-- Contributed by: kylie

HEY LORI, I AM FIXING TO TURN 20 IN A FEW DAYS AND THERE IS THIS GUY I REALLY LIKE. HE LIKES ME TOO, BUT WE ARE IN THIS FRIENDSHIP PHASE. WE WERE TALKING BEFORE... HE WENT ON 2 DATES WITH ME AND DATED THIS OTHER GIRL ONCE OR TWICE AND THEN TOLD ME THAT WE SHOULD JUST BE FRIENDS. SO I SAID OK AND THEN HE AND THIS OTHER GIRL BECAME GIRLFRIEND AND BOYFRIEND FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS AND BROKE UP. nOW ME AND HIM ARE TALKING AGAIN. WE HAVE ALOT IN COMMON...BUT I DON'T WANT TO GET MY HEART BROKEN. I AM CONFUSED ABOUT HIM BEING A PLAYER OR NOT! I NEED ADVICE TOHER THAN MY FAMILY! THANKS FOR READING!!!!

GIRL VERY CONFUSED, 

         BRIT
-- Contributed by: BRIT

Dear Lori, i am in 6th grade.I like this guy, and he kind of play flirts with me. i mean, i once caught him looking through my keychains when i wasn't looking. I asked him nicely what he was doing, and he cleared his throat, smirked and turned away! The problem is he flirts a lot with a bunch of other s. please give me advice.

- very confused

p.s. this is kinda big because nobody has ever liked me before

-- Contributed by: Salma

Dear Lori I am in the nineth grade and I realy have a crush on my friend but he dose not know it cause i don't show it at all but he alway's stare's at me and it makes me blush and i tell him to stop but he dose not stop staring at me and he asked me for my number and i gave it to him and he said that he is going to prank call my mom and say that he's my boyfriend does he like me or what should i do help! LOVE CRISTINA

-- Contributed by: cristina

Dear Lori, I am a gal aged 20 and there is this guy i reali like. It all startd wen u asked for my number and later on we started chatting together. He told me he likes me bt the problem is his is dating a girl younger than me. We went out together and we had sex for the first time. Things started getting better. He wud call me come and see me everyday and i wud visit him by his place.We have BEEN doing this for a year now. Now my question is does this guy really like me and do i stand a chance of dating him as in being his girlfriend? O he is jst sexually attractd to me?I love him and he knows.PLEASE REPLY BUK AND LET ME KNOW YO VIEWS.

-- Contributed by: carol

Heyyya Lori ! ;) I'm a 9th grader and need some serious help with LUVVV ! hehe *^_^* O.K.,,, there was this guy I liked for like 3 years straight ! Now that I think I finally have the confidence to flirt with him, he goes to a different school ! Luckily my BFFL:) goes there too ! We've been kinda conversating through her. I, myself, have never actually said "hi" to him ! I mean I waved once when he waved and kinda half-said "hi" from afar when were in camp this past summer, but other than that nada! He actuallly gave me a hug when I went to oour other BFFLS Homecoming ! I guees I kinda freaked a bit since he took me -n- my BFFLie by suprise when were leaving ! His eye contact was intense !!!...BUT Hes kinda had alotta girl friends and I kinda did too...the only difference is that his were long-term and I usally broke mine off in a week(if even that long)! Theres a game coming up aginst my school and theirs and of course i'm planning to go !! We're both Aquarius if that helps any haha. O his birthday is the day following the game ! Any tips with flirting with how ackward of a situation this is in mind? I mean all of his girlfriends were kinda ummm not like me... AT ALLLLLL. I've been joking around with this dora joke type thing O and I said "He looked nice today" even though I couldn't C him sooo at homecoming the only thing he did say was "I know she see me now" ! (which I totallyyy didn't, for once!)O let me stop, but plsss I need some HELPPP ! @_@ LUVVV FSCheerGrl ! :) Thanks in Advance! P.S. -I've never been KISSED !

-- Contributed by: FSCheerGrl !

Dear Bobby, it is very normal to find teachers attractive or even have a crush on them. I think just about everyone has had a teacher or two they really looked forward to seeing every day. There is nothing wrong with this unless the crush turns into an obsession. Since you posted this question in the How to Flirt Tips article, I assume you would like to flirt with your teacher. My suggestion is don't flirt. Your teacher isn't going to start dating you and if you start flirting, it will only become awkward for both of you. You can certainly talk with your teacher and enjoy going to class each day, but just leave it at that. If you want to try flirting, find a girl your age that interests you.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

i am in the 6th grade and i think my gym teacher is hot what should i do

-- Contributed by: bobby

dear Lori, Im in 5th grade. I really like this guy so much, so much i want to have sex with him! Any tips?

-- Contributed by: Mikenna

Im 16 and I had been dating a guy for about 5 months when he decided we would be better "friends." Before we were dating we were best friends and now he HATES me, he talks to all my other friends, and tells them he cant stand me, and deleted me from msn and facebook. Why does he hate me so much?( He Dumped me) Please Help I lost A BF and A Best Friend...

-- Contributed by: Sarah
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