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Hi mjinsae,

It's hard to say if he likes you or is just playing with your emotions since he probably knows you still have feelings for him. All you can do is see where this goes...

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

my boyfriend and i were together for a month. he made the first move. at first i told him i only wanted to be friends but then a few days later we went out. i was sooo happy!!! we saw each other every day at school and sometimes even on the weekends. we were the "perfect" couple. then one day, he dumped me while we were having a conversation on the phone. he said that he felt as if he didnt know me well enough. and that we were moving too fast. all i had done was kiss him on the cheek. its been a month since the break-up and we haven't contacted each other in any way. except for the day after the break-up. he said that he wanted to talk to me and i said sure. at the end of the conversation, he asked me for a hug good-bye. a "friend" hug. and, of course, i gave it to him. but it was waaay more than that. he held me like he did when we were still going out. he said we could be friends but thats not really working out. i dont know why he won't talk to me. and today, at school, during 3rd period, i caught him looking at me. and when i was going to go put my book away, he also put his book away. and he placed it right on top of mine's. i walked away as fast as i could because i didn't want him to notice the smile on my face. i have a feeling he still likes me, but i dont know why he won't admit it to my face. his friend keeps telling me he still likes me. well, does he still like me? PLEASE LET ME KNOW. :)

-- Contributed by: mjinsae

If he isn't giving into your advances and backs off when you try to initiate more contact, it's probably safe to say that he's trying to give you the message that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. He probably does want to be your friend but he's afraid that you are going to take his friendliness as something more.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

me and my boyfriend were together a whole 2 months, rumors went around a few months ago and he randomly said he didnt like me anymore whrn he heard them. however, we didn't talk all summer but whne i would call he'd stay on the phone until i decided to leave he smiles when he sees me and tries to cut in on some of my conversations. he always looks at me he lives up my subdivision so he gets on my bus everyday. but if i go to make the first move he flips out or blocks me off msn. its likke he wants to be friends but is scared of something. ive tried everything to make it work and it never does, i wanna know if he likes me, its really confusing

-- Contributed by: tbone65

Hi Ashbash,

Sounds like he does like you and doesn't know how to tell you. He might be scared to let you know about his feelings because he's not sure how you feel. The ball is in your court. You can either show that your are interested in him by now seeking him out like he has sought you out by talking to him more. Or you can remain distant to give him the message that you aren't interested. Good luck.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

hello, i have a problem. I have an ex that acts very strangely. we've had several rows, and now we decided we were goin to get along again a while back. Yet he comes to the same place where i hang out at school, and sometimes people catch him staring, but i dont know how he feels. he phoned me one night at twelve and woke me up and i texted him sayin whats up and he went nothin im bored and i texted him back and then he foned and hung up again so i foned him and we wer on the fone for about 10 mins and then he went bye and i sed bye and he went bye and he hung up, and realy he stops his friends from annoyin me sometimes and i dont get him? he tries to talk to my mates, yeah sure. but im not sure if he likes me? help plz.

-- Contributed by: ashbash

Hi Sadie,

It's difficult to know if he wants to be friends or more from what you've written. The only way you will really know for sure is to either wait and see how acts towards you or just come out and ask him.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

my ex boyfriend called me the other day after three months of not talking after we broke up. he asked to meet up and talk. he said that he really misses me and wants to see me. is he trying to back together with me or does he just want to clear the air and be friends..?!

-- Contributed by: Sadie

Hi Missy,

Well, if he is telling your friend that he would like to date you again, then there's a good chance that he does still have feelings for you.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

my ex boyfriend told my friend at work that he wants me back.does he still love me.

-- Contributed by: missy

Hi Latoya,

He seems to want the best of two worlds - single but still have you "available". You may need to let him know how you are feeling and see if he wants to make a true effort in reconciling. If not, you will need to start healing so you can move on. Good luck to you...

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

my ex says he loves me more than life but he cant handle the emotions of us being together right now and that he will only hurt me more in the long run. i ask him am i wasteing my time waiting for him and he said yes but then he says he would go crazy if he seen me with someone else .we have a 2 year old daughter so i cant not see him but i am confused and hurt he promised me so much and i feel betrayed that he has left me and our daughter i dont know what i should do please help me

-- Contributed by: latoya wright

Abc, as the articles states, you know your ex-boyfriend better than anyone. What do you think it means? Is he feeling out where you are and maybe trying to see if you're still interested? Think about why you broke up in the first place before deciding to pursue what he's interested in.

-- Contributed by: HVLong

if my ex bf calling me again but trying to act smart or showing they are happy without you. what does that mean?

-- Contributed by: abc

Thanx alot i needed it.

-- Contributed by: Zenia

Krissy, thanks for the question. Not being able to see each other as much as you like can be difficult. Talking on the phone or IM is the key to staying together. When you do see each other, try and make the most of it by doing activities together instead of passively watching a movie, for example. It is hard to tell if you can handle not seeing each other all the time until you try it. If you are meant to be together it will work itself out.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

i need some advice me and my ex want to go out but we cant see each other alot i dont know how to deal with this i possiably think im in love but its not 100%

-- Contributed by: KRISSY
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