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Emily,

You have great insight about your situation and you are right that you two were not together so it's not that he cheated on you. However, it still hurts when you felt or thought something that didn't turn out the way you wanted. If staying friends with him is too difficult right now, you might want to keep your distance for a little while so you can heal. Good luck to you.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Kique,

Having your heart broken is one of life's greatest hurts. Whether you should wait for her or move on depends on what you think the future of your relationship with your wife will be. Since I do not know the details of your separation, it's difficult to give advice about where you should go for help. The best thing you can do right now is talk to her and then let her make the next move. The answer to moving on or waiting will come to you with time. Good luck!

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

i have been involved with a lady on and off for about 18 years. We never managed to try to stay together until 10 years ago and then 2 years ago when we got together again.. We are married. now she is gone cause i was a complete idiot. i truly love her and don't want to loose her but know I must keep on moving.. It's just that i am having a difficult time on this roller coaster ride.. I am not on my face.. But still hurting... I want her back but i know she will say no.. even though she loves . me.. I Know that now she is interested in someone else and i probably am second place.. should i wait.. or should I just move on...?

-- Contributed by: Kique

I don't know if mine really counts as a complete heartbreak, as much as just pain and hurt. A guy and I had been talking and talking, for almost a year and then one day he tells me he went on a date with a girl and after just talking to her once, he wants her and not me anymore. I should just get over it, as we weren't really dating anyway. It's just hard to go a year, hearing I want and need you, to I just want to be ordinary friends. We talked about everything and I mean everything, so I'm having a really hard time basically being forced to stay in a friendship with this person. I'd feel guilty if i didn't. I realize my pain is probably just a fraction compared to everyone else's, but any advice would be helpful.

-- Contributed by: Emily

It is pain when talk about unsuccessful love story. I wonder how still able to live life now...I need 2 years to recover myself. The good things happen, I became stronger but the worst thing, hardly to trust people even for a chance until I loose new chance for most of the time...

-- Contributed by: Nissie

my therapist helps me a lot and one piece of advice she gave me was live in the moment your in-that helps because I don't want to hang out ,I want to be the homebody that I am ,so living in the One moment I can always change my thoughts-if I'm thinking of her with my head hanging down I can turn the tv on -pick up a book ,make a call until the next moment it's not easy but your time will go by just like theres and they are using what works for them!

-- Contributed by: ROmacho

well i am so sorry to hear about ur situation. my first boyfriend been together for over 2yrs now broke my heart twice . the first time i forgave and he do it again.i love him with all my heart. u know what i guess he is not ready to settle down.

-- Contributed by: toya

hi my name is albert, it has been 2 years since i was dumped by my ex-gf,and it is really hard for me to move on, i still can't forget about what had happened, i never tried to go out on a date since she left me, she has definitely moved on with her life so why can't i?

-- Contributed by: Albert Rodriguez

Dakota, I'm sorry to hear about your girlfriend. Unfortunately sometimes people say one thing and mean another. If she really loved you, she wouldn't be involved with another guy already. As you know, it hurts really bad right now, but it will get easier with time. Take some time for yourself and connect with your friends and family to help you get over the pain. Try not to let this experience prevent you from falling in love again.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

My name is Dakota, i'm using my moms computer because mine is messed up. I need advice bad. I am seventeen, and me and my girlfriend of four years just separated because of family problems. (in short her mom hates me) I don't know what to do anymore. I'm not in school because me and her got out together to do home school because of her health problem, and both of her parents work. Incidentally i was worried about her at home by her self after she got out of the hospital, so i told her that i would get out of school to help her. I don't know how to react to losing someone that i based 90% of my time on. I know you've probably all heard stories like this one before, but i need some help. I can hardly eat or sleep, and to make matters worse i saw her wrapped up with some guy yesterday. How can someone that claims to love you so much hurt you so bad. Please help me ?

-- Contributed by: Dakota Benefield

I'm really sorry to hear that your boyfriend moved out. The first thing to do is realize that you are not alone. Don't sit at home and be reminded that your boyfriend isn't there. Go be with your friends or spend time with your family. Next, if you are still unable to talk with him directly, try contacting his friends or family. Try and find out why he left and let it be known that you want to talk with him to work out your troubles. Hopefully he only overreacted to a situation and with time will want to come back.

-- Contributed by: Rick Fulks

me and my longtime 61/2 years boyfriend have just recently had it out well we were living together and he packed his stuff and left while i was at school. I am really heartbroken and can't seem to understand the drastic action he took i feel like someone is cutting into my chest that is how bad it hurts. i keep trying to talk to him but i can not call him or see him. Please tell me how to deal with this because i feel like i am so alone!!!!

-- Contributed by: Chinoe06@yahoo.com
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