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Hi John,

Your wife has been through something horrible and you are doing just as you should - staying by her side, supporting and comforting her. However, you can only do so much and what she really needs is help from a professional. It's a long road ahead of her to recover from this living nightmare, and she may need medication to help her get through it along with therapy. If she refuses to go, just support her and be patient. She is probably still in shock and she's not ready to work on it. Good luck to her and you...

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

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my wife is living a nightmare because of being drugged and raped by six men at the same time i believe this is one of the worst crimes that anyone could commit against anyone she wakes up through the night shaking and crying ,I'm at a loss because there is nothing i can do but hold her and comfort her she is stiff and not able to respond to my touch she feels dirty and worthless can anyone out there that been through anything close to this help her she need to talk to someone she will not seek help from a doctor please if you can reach out help me save my wife her name is Karen she is 30 years old

-- Contributed by: john

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my wife was druged by frinds she trusted she was given drugs over a months time and she just thought she was sleepy all the time six men raped her at the same time they did things to her that she cant deal with i dont know how to help her i love her and know it was not her falt i support her 100% and am trying to help her through this she only remembers little bits of it and says she dont know whats real and whats in her head its not easy to she shacks all over cant sleep when she sleeps she wakes up screeming and i just want to help her is there a group or a woman out there that can talk to her that has been through anything like this please i need help helping my wife i dont want her in anymore pain please help- me

-- Contributed by: john

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my wife was gang raped how do i help her get through it

-- Contributed by: john

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I was almost d by a man my mom piked up off the road and I was only 5 and know I am 19 and the man is still in gail.

-- Contributed by: brittney geoffrey

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buty, if you think you have the right to say something like that then you are definatly ignorant on the subject. i personally know someone who was date raped, and ended up pregnant. She kept the baby, and it changed her life forever. no she wasnt drunk. no she wasnt high. reality is, it can happen to anyone. And education really can be the only hope, for someone who says things like you do. do some research on teh subject-- then act like you know it all. peace <3 :)

-- Contributed by: Vicky

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buty, you should talk about education - you can barely spell. And rape is never the fault of the victim, no matter what they were drinking or where (bar, nightclub, whatever). By those standards, you could say if a guy was fatally shot at a bar he was drinking at, he'd deserve it - 'cause he was drinking. So he deserves to be dead, right? Same logic, different scenario. Try to be a little more empathetic, and use some old-fashioned common sense before you judge people you don't even know.

-- Contributed by: anonymous

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The sad fact is in hundreds of clubs there is thousands of men and woman who drink to excess and often top that up with both legal medicenes and drugs from canabis to ampethemines and then end up completely and hopeless out of control of them selves. These people if they werent so drunkenly stupid would realise they problably just been date raped but instead they perfer to call it having sex , there so sad and so easy. I think education can be there only hope.

-- Contributed by: buty
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