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Hi 7000km apart,

It's definitely possible that you've fallen in love with him. However, you do need to be careful because not everyone is who they seem online, even in webcam chatting. Always be safe when you meet someone from the Internet. Never meet with the person alone, always in a public place. If you do want to meet him, do it in a public place and see how things go. It will seem like you are starting over again with the meeting, but if you guys click, you'll know right away. If not, well, then you'll know you need to move on. Good luck...remember to be safe.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Hi I am really confused. I met a guy randomly on skype, he just started chatting to me and things have been moving fast. I wasn't even looking for love I was just on Skype. He lives in Argentina and I live in South Africa. We chat via webcam very often and sometimes spend an hour two chatting via webcam despite the fact that he speaks no english and my spanish is not perfect. He always talks about what he is going to bring me when he comes to visit and told me that he loves me and all sorts of charming latin things. Tonight he was discussing his holiday schedule with me telling me how he thinks he is going to buy a ticket to come here in June. Do I believe this guy or what, I won't lie I have been encouraging it as I think he's super sexy and really nice; actually its weird I am not sure why i like him I just do.... But the question is should I?

-- Contributed by: 7000km apart

Hello Wondering Lost,

If it's been four years and you still have no met him, yes, I would be worried. There may something going on that you don't know about on his end, which is why he is not set on meeting you. If you really want to meet him and have a relationship with this person, ask again if he wants to plan to meet, if he doesn't, you may want to rethink how much you really want to invest in this relationship.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

I've been with my online boyfriend for three years now, and we continue to have conversations via- IM and on the phone. I love him a lot and he loves me the same- and we can talk about practically anything on the phone and IM.

However, I'm worrying about one thing now that were coming up on four years. We still haven't met up in person- we've talked about it but never really come up with a conclusion or settlement.

We both are students at the moment and lack means to get plan tickets financially, we also both still live at home.. is this something I should be worrying about and thinking twice over?

-- Contributed by: WonderingLost

Crushed, if he's resistant to opening up another avenue of communication either via voice phone or web cam, then you have every right to your suspicions. After three years, if your relationship is not moving forward, that may be the answer.

-- Contributed by: HVLong

I have a problem, i have deeply fallen in love with a guy i met over the internet. Ive known him for almost 3 years now. recently weve told eachother that we have fallen in love with eachother but his in europe and im here in australia. I have doubts thats his not real, because his afraid 2 call me and he hasnt got a webcam even tho his friends have one. he doesnt do things for me and i do soo much for him. I feel hurt and i just want to know if his real or not..what do i do ive spoken to him and he said his naturally stubbron and he has to do sumthn outa his will. not because i want him too.. my parents wont let me be with him unless i ahve prof his real..

-- Contributed by: Crushed ALOT

I am in a very successful long distance relationship. I love him and he loves me and we are going to meet in April. He lives in England and I live in California. <3

-- Contributed by: Shelby

Confused girl,

Sounds like you are not interested in having a long distance relationship. This type of relationship is difficult and it takes work from both people in the relationship to make it work. My advice is to continue talking to him as you have been but also let him know that you are not interested in furthering anything right now so you don't lead him on.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

Hi. I met this guy from America and we've been friends for about 2 years. We chat a lot when we just know each other and somehow talk lesser and lesser until recently we started chatting on MSN and even webcam/video calls. He asked me to be his girlfriend and wouldn't mind a long distance relationship and that he would do anything for me. Right now I am wondering should I accept him as my boyfriend? Well we live 9826.70miles apart.. It's so far away. I have no trust and confident, I'm lost and confused what to do.. Any tips or suggestions how I should handle this?

-- Contributed by: Confused girl
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