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Help,

I'm sorry you are going through such a difficult time. Understand that your boyfriend is hurt because he feels that you betrayed him. You have done all you can do and now you need to step back and wait for him to come to you. Give him time to heal and if you are still around when he recovers he may be interested in pursuing a relationship with you again. If not, you'll have to learn from this relationship and move on. Good luck to you.

-- Contributed by: Marcelina Hardy

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I'm really missing my boyfriend i made a big mistake by talking to one of my ex boyfriends the reason is because i felt that my boyfriend was starting to lose interest in me because he was always making comments about me wearing makeup or dressing sexy for him so it made me feel liek i was not pretty enough for him so i had to find a replacement if he was to leave me but i really love my boyfriend adn now i can not communicate with him he changed his number but i know where he works i want to talk to him so bad but i do not want to stalk him he still has my number i did not change mine i cant stop thinking about him what do i do im in so much pain please help me i really want him back i love him so much.

-- Contributed by: Help

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I have a girlfriend whom I love dearly has recently received a proposal for marriage from her son's father....it is beautiful since he has proposed it's like he is noticing all these faults regarding her and is constantly calling me on the phone to complain....I have repeatedly asked him what has brought this uncertainty on and he states that well at this stage in his life....he is (46) he realizes that he has no time to waste and there are certain goals that he has set and he fully intends to accomplish them before he reaches (50). With that mind set he feels that she should then be on the same page as he is, he wants her to go back to school although she has not rejected the idea however she is not reacting fast enough for him I have told him that he has to be patient and allow her to reach these decisions on her own you've planted the seed now allow it to grow he says ok and yet it's a constant never ending phone calls regarding the same issues, she herself is not so innocent I don't know she is very sarcastic and would often give you a sarcastic answer or comment she would not let him know that she is considering it because she doesn't want him to know and I have stated to both of them that they are in need of serious help which I don't feel I am capable of giving...they need to bare all....whatever is bothering each and every one needs to be said, they need to get clarity on trust issues that I believe they are having.....please help me I don't know what else I can say to either of them I have even suggested they both come by me and I would act as a mediator but seems as if he want's to continue to call me and complain rather than solving the issue.

-- Contributed by: Tracey

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could you please send me the comments on the barriers to communication and the five categories of feedback accordind to carl roger because u dont fand what i want in this website

-- Contributed by: seani

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very good explanation.

-- Contributed by: mohammad bux
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