Tongue Kissing
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Tongue kissing can be so intimidating especially if you have never done it before. Even if you have been doing it for a while, you may want to find out how you can French kiss better so it's more pleasurable for both you and your partner.
Are Your Ready for Tongue Kissing
If you have done this type of kiss before you know that it is something much more intimate than your regular peck on the lips. This type of kiss involves intense interaction with a lot of spit transferring back and forth. If saliva makes you uneasy then you may not be ready for this step in intimacy with your partner. However, if you are fine with it, read on to learn more.
Getting in the Right Frame of Mind
French kissing involves a certain level of mental preparation. You need to know what to expect or you may be surprised when you feel your partner's tongue in your mouth. Couples usually don't discuss whether or not they will French or regular kiss so you just have to be ready to do whatever the moment takes you.
The first thing you need to do is relax. Remember to relax your neck, shoulders and the muscles in your mouth. You don't want to be tense when you start kissing your partner because he or she will notice and probably stop to ask you what is wrong. If you have total trust in your boyfriend or girlfriend you will feel comfortable engaging in this intimate activity.
How to Kiss with Your Tongue
Every kiss will be different and after doing it a few times, you will probably be able to do it without even thinking about it. However, here is the basic idea of how to kiss with your tongue.
- How to initate
First, lean in as you normally do, start out slowly and as you get into it open your mouth slightly. Your mate will probably know what this means and if he or she is experienced, you will start to feel his or her tongue in your mouth. To let your partner know you enjoyed it, you can imitate what he or she has just done.
If your partner does not get your hint when you open your mouth, slowly place your tongue in his or her mouth and then see how your partner reacts. If he or she does the same then you know your partner is okay with it, if not, you can either wait or try it again.
- Do not over use your tongue
Do not use your tongue too much because it may not be pleasurable to your partner. You want to alternate between using it and kissing normally. This way your kiss won't turn sloppy and it gives you a chance to breathe.
- What to do with your arms and hands
Where you place your hands is also important. If you are sitting down you can wrap your arms around each other, hold hands, or place a hand on your partner's face. If you are standing, you may find it comfortable to place your hands on his or her waist or wrap your arms around the small of your mate's back. Some people will also French in a hugging position while standing.
French Kissing Techniques
If you are looking for some more techniques visit these websites:
This site explains how to do it and some additional tips.
This is a Q&A site with some tips you can try on your mate the next time you are intimate.
You will find information on all type of smooches, stories, pictures, advice, and books on this website.
Conclusion
French kissing is a normal part of a relationship. Once you do it for the first time, you will probably be doing it whenever you are in a romantic relationship. The only way you can perfect this skill is by doing it often and taking suggestions from your partner. Just remember, kissing is supposed to be an intimate and fun experience between you and your special someone so try not to stress out about it too much.
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