Swingers Dating

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Swingers’ dating is a unique lifestyle based on open sexual relationships.

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The idea of swinging may seem wrong to some and just plain strange to others. However, what consenting adults choose to do within their relationship shouldn't be grounds for fear or derision. When it comes to sexuality, one size doesn't fit all.

What is Swinging?

Swinging is the practice of engaging in sexual activities with multiple partners. It is sometimes referred to as "the lifestyle." Those participating in swingers dating are usually in a committed relationship, although singles may also be involved. Some swapping activities are purely heterosexual, while others involve same-sex relations. While swinging is typically thought of as two couples swapping partners for sexual intercourse, it may also involve group sex and voyeurism or exhibitionism.

Polyamory Versus Swinging

Polyamory is the practice of participating in multiple relationships, with a sense of intimacy and love in each of these pairings. The swinging lifestyle is typically devoted to only casual sex.

Finding Other Swingers

While the swinging lifestyle is featured in a television or movie plot from time to time, it typically exists under the radar. Swingers’ dating often takes place at designated clubs and bars to eliminate any confusion between participants and non-participants in the lifestyle. While swingers activities in the past were spread through word of mouth, with occasionally taking a chance on someone who might be interested, Internet resources have made it increasingly easy to find like-minded couples.

Swingers Dating Online

Before clicking on any of the links below, please be aware that some pages include nudity and sexual images.

  • Swingular offers personals and a forum for users. Membership is free. The site also offers helpful articles on topics like "Setting Rules To Swing By."
  • OnlineSwingers.com provides several introductory articles on swinging and tips for those participating in the lifestyle in addition to the usual personal ads.
  • Swingers Dating is a UK-based site offering free basic memberships. Features include instant messaging and the ability to upload photos and audio files.
  • 99Swing.com provides free adult and swingers personals. Add a photo or video message while maintaining anonymity through a site mailbox and other privacy settings.
  • Swingers Date Club caters to an international audience, claiming over one million members. They offer adult personals, swingers club listings, forums, and video chat rooms. This is a pay site, although a free 7-day trial is available, and the swingers’ club listings are openly available.

Joining the Lifestyle

Are you intrigued by swingers dating and would like to try it out? Consider the following points before jumping in to the scene:

  • Are both you and your partner comfortable with the idea? No one should feel forced to participate.
  • Are you interested for the right reasons? If you’re just trying to add spice to your relationship or trying to compensate for something that’s missing, there are probably better ways to meet your needs.
  • What are your preferences? Are you looking for group sex or a partner swap? Do you want to remain with people around your own age or are you open to all partners? Are you interested in engaging in sexual activities with members of the same sex? Knowing your goals can help you find the right community of swingers.
  • If you have children, are you willing to deal with the possibility of them finding out?
  • Are you emotionally ready for casual sex with multiple partners?

When participating in swinging, remember:

  • Set ground rules with your partner before the evening begins. Is there anything you would be upset watching him or her participate in?
  • Be respectful of all participants.
  • Practice safe sex.
  • Don't participate in anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. There is no shame in backing out or changing your mind.

 


Comments

You gave good advice. I'm been trying to convince my wife with trying this. She is somewhat interested and I'm not sure if it is better to date another couple first before tring a club or reverse. I'm at a point to try it even if it may break up our 32 yr marriage. I doubt that it would but, like most guys, we are glueless in what our spouces are thinkijng.

-- Contributed by: Doug

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