Signs of a Cheating Wife
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Do you know how to recognize signs of a cheating wife? Before asking your wife if she is cheating, see if you can observe one or more of the signs. One sign by itself usually doesn’t prove anything. Several or more signs, however, are often an indicator that she is with another man.
Some Signs of a Cheating Wife
Noticing the signs will require that you pay attention to behavior patterns and compare them to past behavior.
Sex Life
When couples are unhappy, the frequency and quality of sex usually goes down. Sex, it is said, is often a barometer of the health of a relationship. While you may think that this is the number one sign to watch for, it is not that simple. Cheating often occurs sometime after a person decides they are unhappy. It is likely, then, that your sex life was suffering before she started cheating.
What may be more prudent to observe is if her sexual actions are changing. If she is learning new moves with another man, she is likely to bring those moves back into bed with you.
Less Emotional Intimacy
Some women cheat for physical needs or wants, but for many women, cheating starts with a need for stronger emotional intimacy. This is often referred to as emotional cheating. If your once talkative wife no longer talks as much, chances are, she is talking with someone else. It could be with one of her girl friends…or with another man.
New Items around the House
Many women like to shop, so noticing new items around the house may not raise your suspicions. This makes new items one of the overlooked signs of a cheating wife. The reason you should notice this is because the new man in her life is likely to buy her gifts.
Starts an Exercise Program
Couples often become complacent about their health and appearance when they feel securely married. If your wife begins an aggressive exercise regime, she may just be interested in improving her health. However, she might also be trying to improve her looks to attract another man.
More Cheating Signs
Not Wearing Wedding Ring
If your wife is cheating, chances are she will start leaving her wedding ring at home. Look at the places she normally leaves her ring when it is off. If she is leaving it off far more than she used to, it is not a good sign.
Less Arguing
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This is one sign that is likely to confuse you about her cheating. If your wife is finding satisfaction outside of your marriage, she will care less about the marriage. Ironically, this can result in less arguing, which may result in you thinking your wife is happy.
Is Home Less Often
In order to cheat, your wife will need to spend time outside the home. Noticing that she is gone more often is a cheating sign. If she is good at covering her tracks, it may be hard to notice this change. She may claim she has to work overtime at work, for example, which is plausible. You will have to rely on your intuition to determine if your wife being home less often is really something to be concerned about or not.
Uses the Computer More
Many cheating spouses meet their new lover online. In fact, there are Web sites designed to facilitate cheating. If your wife starts using the computer more often than she used to, it may because she is e-mailing and chatting with her new friend.
More Time on the Phone
Cheating requires communication and the phone is how many cheaters contact each other. Even disciplined lovers that are trying to cover their tracks will find it difficult to refrain from calling occasionally. Be on the lookout, then, for a spike in time spent on the phone or a higher cell phone bill.
Conclusion
To determine if your wife is cheating, pay attention to all the signs. Any one sign is not enough to implicate anyone, but if the totality of her behavior seems suspicious, chances are something is going on. You will want to confront her eventually about it, but not in an accusatory manner in case you are wrong.
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Comments
Be careful with this advice...like Horoscopes, we can always read into cir...stances and apply them to predictions. I think this is very poor advice and negligent to publish it here
-- Contributed by: Dangerous - very dangerous advice
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