Romantic Places

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Whether you are trying to spice up an old relationship or strengthen a new one, romantic places can be a useful tool. The important piece to remember is that romance is more a state of mind than a destination. Still, there are certain locales which are more likely than others to inspire loving feelings.

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Flowers and Romance
Instead of bringing flowers to your date, bring your date to the flowers. Both your sense of smell and sight are aroused in a bed of flowering plants. Find a local wildflower hike, tulip nursery, rose garden, or even a local greenhouse and take in the romance.

Well-Known Romantic Places

When we think of romantic places, certain locations come to mind. For example, we've all fantasized about the romantic possibilities of Paris, France. And what could be more romantic than a gondola ride in Italy? Other places known for their inherent romanticism include:

  • Eiffel Tower
  • Empire State Building
  • Vienna, Austria
  • Casablanca, Morocco
  • Monaco
  • Chalet in Switzerland

Disadvantages of Tourist Hotspots

Much like red roses and chocolates as romantic gifts, Rome and the Eiffel Tower as romantic hotspots are a bit overdone. Their very popularity alone creates a few problems. For example, these romantic places are incredibly crowded. Waiting in long lines and shoving your way through crowds can quickly dampen romantic feelings. These places are in-demand tourist spots, so they are also quite expensive. No one wants to spend their romantic getaway worried about money! Expectations are also high when you visit a well-known romantic place. Perhaps you have spent many years fantasizing about the place. When you expect magic, real life can be a disappointment.

Find Appropriate Destinations

One of the biggest problems with the stereotypical romantic places is they sometimes force people to play a role. They do not allow for individuality. If, for example, you are afraid of heights, a visit to the top of the Empire State Building is going to be an anxiety-inducing trip instead of the pulse-pounding romance you are searching for. These types of letdowns can make us question ourselves, our partner, and our relationship. Instead of forcing your relationship to fit a particular mold, work with what you've got.

Search for romantic opportunities that are a good match for the two of you. Ask yourself:

  • What do we both enjoy doing?
  • What are our hopes and dreams?
  • What are our fears and dislikes?
  • Is there something that he or she has always wanted to do?
  • Are we on a budget?

In this way, you're much less likely to be disappointed.

Romantic Places for Nature Lovers

Nature provides some of the most romantic possibilities around. If the two of you enjoy spending time outdoors, there are many natural choices, including:

  • Picnic in the moonlight
  • Dinner cruise in San Antonio, Texas or other river city
  • Spend the night at the beach
  • Stargaze from the top of a mountain

If you're far from the beach or mountains and you can't afford the airfare, try a blanket in the background for a night of dream sharing and stargazing.

Romance for Thrill-Seekers

For many, nothing is more romantic than a shot of pure adrenaline. If heart-pounding fear and exhilaration turn you and your partner on, try:

  • Helicopter ride over the Grand Canyon
  • Hot-air balloon ride over your city
  • Skydive together in Kenya
  • Take an African safari
  • Scuba diving in the Galapagos Islands

Old-Fashioned Romance

If you are a true romantic at heart, you may find romance in yesteryear. For many, the simpler times evoke a magical feeling of love and nostalgia. If you and your partner yearn for the simplicity of long ago, try:

  • Horse-drawn carriage through Central Park
  • Riding horses along the beach at sunset
  • Tandem bike riding through San Francisco
  • Visiting a historic city, such as Colonial Williamsburg
  • Flying kites in a meadow
  • Visit Coral Castle or a historical castle near you

If these ideas are a bit costly for you, try to find an old-fashioned soda or malt shop. Listen to some old tunes and share a chocolate malt!

Tips for Making Any Place Romantic

Instead of focusing on finding the ideal romantic spot, try making the places around you more romantic. In many ways, romance is a state of mind. It is rooted more in thoughts and feelings than in a certain location. With the right mindset, most any place can be romantic. Try these tips:

  • Focus with all of your senses. Notice the colors of the changing leaves, the scents in the air, and the feel of the cool water.
  • Make lots of physical contact with your partner. Hand holding, hugging, and kissing can all cause a more romantic feeling. Eye contact is also important.
  • Avoid any negative conversations. Focus on positive things, such as your hopes and dreams for the future.
  • Laugh. Believe it or not, sharing a good laugh can increase feelings of love and romance.

 


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