Romantic Love Letters

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True romantic love letters “speak” from the heart and expose your inner thoughts and desires. A love letter can’t be faked; the words will only flow freely if your feelings are real and deep. This is one of the reasons why you should spend the time to write your loved one a romantic love letter, as it is a significant expression of devotion.

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Why Write?

Real writing is quickly becoming a lost art. We have all become too busy and bombarded by technologic lingo, abbreviations and instant messages. It takes time to express true emotion. Although technology has encouraged the use of writing, we are losing the true connection that sincere writing brings. The goal is to learn to create that connection through writing romantic love letters.

Letters are also mementos, something to be saved for future enjoyment. When you and your sweetie are apart, there are still the special words to help you reconnect at any moment. The simple act of writing words also makes your message of love more significant. The receiver of your affection will know you took time to express your feelings and they were worthy of creating a permanent representation.

Writing a note is a lengthy one-way conversation with no chance for interruptions, discussions or time constraints. It provides you the opportunity to speak freely and carefully select your words. It can be reviewed and rewritten until you are certain it says exactly what you mean.

All human beings are writers, it is in our nature. Whether or not we call ourselves one, humans are the only creature on this planet that communicates in a written form. You don’t have to be an English major or journalist to write openly about your feelings for another person. Don’t let your fears of writing put off your motivation to design a special romantic love letter, start today!

How to Start

The most important part of starting a romantic love letter is finding the perfect time and place to actually sit and write. You need to feel comfortable, have some length of quality time, and privacy. You will also need the right environment to focus on the person you plan to write to.

It can be hard to think of everything you want to say in one sitting. Various inspirations of love can come to you at odd times, like in the shower or after you are driving home from a date. For the most accurate love letter, it is actually best to start with a love notebook. Carry the book around with you for a short while gathering romantic thoughts about your love as they come to mind throughout the day.

Then, when you sit down to actually write your letter, you can start by reviewing your love notebook. Before even putting your pen to paper, picture and imagine the special person in your mind. Visualize him doing the things he enjoys and feel the presence of her personality when you write. Then, say the heart-felt things your love would most want to hear. You don’t have to exaggerate, but simply focus on honest feelings that would be most meaningful to him or her. Concentrate specifically on the relationship and the activities you do together. One of the most common mistakes in writing a love letter is to direct too much on your own personal issues, concerns or problems, instead of the other person.

Questions to get you thinking in this mode:

  • How do I feel when I am with her?
  • What do I admire most about him?
  • What inspired me to write this letter?
  • How do I want the letter to make her feel?

Once you have formulated the words, the next step is to select the vehicle that will distribute them. Consider the type of paper or card you will write on. Personalized stationary or expensive delicate papers help to send your message more effectively. Appearances do count, even in romantic love letters. Contemplate also adding a special touch, like a sealing wax stamp, mild scent, or kiss of lipstick.

Additional Romantic Love Letters Tips

  • Lots of shorter spontaneous love letters are as wonderful as one long one.
  • Handwritten is always preferred; but it is not an absolute requirement. If your love is living overseas, a well-crafted email can still be an outstanding romantic love letter.
  • Create many rough drafts on scrap paper before starting the real thing.
  • Read the letter out loud to ensure it delivers a smooth message in your own voice.
  • Look to poetry for insight.
  • Use comparisons and contrasts in your descriptions.
  • Write words that you commonly use, to create a letter in your own familiar voice.
  • Leave the letter as a surprise.

Make the letter fit your relationship and each other’s personalities. This will help to ensure it remains real. It is not necessary for the letter to have flowery language or even be completely serious. If your relationship is full of humor and fun-love, then show this in your letter too. Your lover wants to hear how you sincerely feel, so communicate in your own way for the most authentic romantic love letter ever.

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Comments

I've known this woman for over a year and we were falling in love but after the death of her sister and a few other family members she began to change. She is afraid of getting to close to anyone now and has a hard time expressing her feelings. I don't want to pressure her into a relationship as I do love here very much and I understand what she has gone through. How can I begin to express my desire for her without her feeling the pressure of a relationship?

-- Contributed by: Nick

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