Romantic Ideas

Be a Romantic Couple

Romance is an attitude that shows your partner he or she is special. Romantic ideas should cause your loved one to feel appreciated. Adding romance will take a relationship to a new level.

Each individual and couple must create their own romantic style. You can’t force a round peg into a square hole when it comes to romantic ideas. The little things that create romance are quite varied and should match the comfort level and personality of a couple. While it may be romantic to stand up in front of a crowd and serenade your partner, if you are an introvert, the stress alone will kill the moment.

Romance will also keep the passion alive as a relationship progresses. Practicing regular acts of romance will build longevity and stability for a couple. Even with the changing roles of men and women in today’s culture, there is still a need for romance.

General Romantic Ideas

Romance is a little bit of spoiling adding to the art of surprise. Opportunities for romantic ideas exist all around; you just have to know where to look. The most important consideration is to make the idea unique to the individual. Know your partner and her desires, listen to his hints, watch each other’s body language for clues.

Start by making time for each other. For romance to blossom, it will take some focused investment. Simply centering your attention directly on your date, no matter what your activity, is romantic. Spontaneity is another component of romance. Think of what gives your partner the most pleasure and surprise him with it. Does she drool over chocolate or delight in the smell of fresh flowers? Maybe just the surprise of picking up his dry cleaning will show your appreciation.

Spending your time on your partner’s passions also creates romance. Take her kids out for ice cream or help him wax his car. Show each other how you treasure the important things in one another’s lives. While you are at it, flirt along with this process. Also, make time for sensual experiences that are not always sexual. Extend your foreplay to the max; explore touch and massage that doesn’t instantly lead to sex.

Remember to keep dating and reconnecting even as your relationship matures.

Specific Romantic Things to Try

The following list offers a variety of specific romantic ideas. You don’t have to try each one to create a romantic mood. Merely select a few that would be simple to do regularly and you are on your way to adding romance to your relationship.

1. Act like children. Have a pillow fight, go ice skating, take in a parade, visit the zoo or amusement park, basically just play together and let loose.
2. Think one step ahead. Do little things for your partner like turning down the bed, setting out her coat, making coffee, or warming up the car.
3. Reach out and touch. Holding hands, a gentle stroke, playing footsies, or a stolen kiss are all possibilities to connect in public.
4. Fire is inherently romantic. Make a fire in the hearth, light candles at dinner, or have a campfire, to soften the mood and create a dreamy atmosphere.
5. Water is relaxing and sensual. Whether you bubble in a spa, bathe each other, or enjoy a walk by the lake, water is sure to please.
6. Appreciate nature. Whether it is a picnic in the park at sunset or a spring hike through the wildflowers, the outdoor environment is naturally romantic.
7. Surprise your love with a compliment. Avoid the standard, “you look good,” but instead offer up “I love the way your hair flows,” or “Your skin smells fresh and sexy.”
8. Write a love note. Check out our article on Romantic Love Letters for a whole list of ideas.
9. Enjoy eating together. Whether it be a surprise lunch at work or enjoying a tasty dessert - let the sensual experience of food create a romantic mood.
10. Hidden signals. Design a unique loving nickname or a special greeting.
11. Share your history. Take your date back to the place you first met or share a special part of your history with baby pictures and a trip down memory lane.
12. Dance together. The close touch and rhythmic movements make dancing an easy romantic activity.
13. Take the initiative to plan ahead for a special date. Design, plan, and create a whole evening together taking care of all the details and then surprise your date.

Fast Food Romance

Here are some quick tips for instant romantic ideas:

• Have her favorite music playing in the car when you pick her up.
• Help him undress after a busy day.
• Pick her a bouquet of fresh flowers.
• Sing to him.
• Feed each other.
• Call during the day, just to say “I was thinking of you…”
• Call the radio and have them dedicate a song and play it at a time you know she will be listening.
• Place an ad in his favorite paper, just to say “I love you…”
• Compliment her in front of her friends.
• Sleep in together.
• Share fantasies.