Married Bedroom Fun

Married Bedroom Fun Communication

One of the barriers to fun is communication, especially lack of communication. It is difficult to tell your spouse that you are bored. You want to have more fun, but you also don’t want to hurt his or her feelings. Your love life won’t improve, however, without first talking about your individual desires and wishes.

Instead of blaming your spouse for not being fun in bed, suggest instead an activity that will shake up the routine. If you enjoy it, then start thinking of new ideas to try together. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you really want. You may find that your spouse has been hoping to try the activity with you.

Bedroom Fun Ideas

Your married bedroom fun is limited only by your own imagination. Use these ideas to spark your own creativity.

Role Playing

Acting in the bedroom can be a lot of fun and can really spice up your sex life. Intimacy is mental and role-playing really taps into your imagination. In your game, the two of you become actors in your own story. Instead of being husband and wife, for a brief time you’ll assume new identities and explore the roles together. Some examples of role-playing include:

• Police officer and criminal
• School teacher and student
• Boss and secretary

In the police officer and criminal example, you can pretend that the police officer has caught the criminal. The criminal, wanting to avoid jail or a ticket, asks to perform sexual favors for the officer to avoid punishment. To enhance your enjoyment of role-playing, try to get into your roles as much as possible. The game isn’t so much about the sex you’ll have, but taping into the mental aspect of intimacy.

Talk about this game before playing. It’s best to take on very generic roles instead of pretending to be actual people you know. You want to have fun, not introduce jealousy or inappropriate fantasies into your bedroom.

Bedroom Toys

Using your bodies to give each other pleasure is definitely nice, but sometimes a toy can be more fun. You may think that toys are something people use when they are alone, but they can be enjoyed with a partner as well.

Thanks to the Web, it is so easy to discretely shop for a toy. Most stores ship products under a generic name, so even the delivery person won’t know what you ordered. Here are two shops to get started with:

• Eden's Fantasy

• Babeland

Both of these stores feature product reviews from buyers to help you find the perfect item. If you aren’t ready to try buying a toy, start with some fancy lubricants or massage oils. They are often of much higher quality than what you’ll find at drug stores, which will make your married bedroom fun more enjoyable.

Tickle Each Other

When was the last time you tickled each other just for fun? Make it a contest by seeing who can last the longest or tickle each other at the same time. The laughing will make you feel better, and the touching may lead to more intimacy.

Lounge in Bed

Fun in the bedroom doesn’t have to be all about sex. Just being next to each other and relaxing can be a lot of fun as well. Arrange for the kids to stay over at a friend’s house so that you’ll have the morning all to yourselves. Before going to bed, gather together things for the morning such as books, magazines, newspapers and card games. You might want to go even further and have some breakfast ready to eat. The goal is to spend as much time as possible just lounging and relaxing in your bed together.

Conclusion

Whether you have been married five days or 50 years, there is no reason why you can’t continue to have fun. Openly communicate your desires to your spouse, be willing to experiment together, and continually thinking of new ideas will keep the two you satisfied in the bedroom.