Male Flirting Signals

How to Read Male Flirting Signals

Not everything a guy does is a sign that he is flirting. This can make it difficult especially when a man frequently exhibits standard flirting signals. So, how can you tell if he is flirting or not? Start by observing his behavior. Watch how he interacts with other women and even other men. For example, do his eyes light up when he looks at you or when he looks at every other lady in the room? If he is interested in you, he will keep flirting that day, and if he is around you often, in the days to come. So stop and observe just a little before deciding whether to take action.

Body Language Signals

Many men will use one or more of these body language techniques. Sometimes he may not even be immediately aware of what he is doing, but you will know if you’re observant. Remember that non-verbal communication is every bit as important as verbal communication, especially if the guy is a little bit shy or at a loss for words when in your presence.

He Looks at You

Since men are visual by nature, the number one sign he is flirting is when he looks at you. A single glance is not enough when he’s attracted. If he likes what he sees, his glance will linger longer than normal, and he will quickly return to looking at you when he finally does look away. Also be watching for the triangular look, where he starts with your eyes, moves down to your lips and chin, and then inspects the rest of you before returning his gaze back to your eyes.

Lifts his Eyebrows

When he lifts his eyebrows, this is a signal that he is interested in what you have to say. If he is still across the room and you are exchanging glances, then his raising eyebrows are a sign that he would like to talk with you. Raise your eyebrows back at him and he may walk over to meet you.

His Face Widens and Lips Part

In addition to lifting his eyebrows, he may also widen his face and slightly part his lips. He widens his face by flaring his nostrils ever so slightly. The result of these movements is to make his face appear friendlier and open to meeting and talking.

Shifts his Stance

If he is standing and facing you, watch for a shift in his stance. The classic male pose is to directly face you with his feet pointed right at you. This signals that all of his attention is on you. It also makes him look tall and strong. Watch his hands to see if they move towards his hips or belt. This further makes him look even stronger and more engaged.

Flirting Techniques: Preening

When a man is interested in a woman, he will want to look his best to increase his chances of impressing her. Watch and see if he tries to clean up a little right in front of you, as this is part of his male flirting signals.

Touches his Shirt, Pants and Tie

Watch and see if he tries to perform an impromptu ironing session on his clothes. Look for his hands to run along his shirt and jeans in an attempt to smooth out any wrinkles. If he is wearing a tie or a shirt with a collar, he will likely adjust those as well.

Touches his Face or Hair

A classic female flirting technique is when she touches her hair but men do it too. He might also touch his face, as a nervous gesture and to make sure it’s free of any unwanted items.

Pulls up his Socks

If you see him pull up his socks, it could mean he is very interested in you. What do socks have to do with attraction? It means he is paying attention to every last detail regarding his appearance.

Other Male Flirting Techniques

His flirting isn’t reserved to body language and fixing his appearance.

Moves into Your Space

Nothing gets your attention like someone moving in to stand or sit close to you. When he comes close, know that he has already established in his own mind that he is attracted. He now wants to get to know you more.

Touches You

Part of the reason for his moving in close is because he wants to touch you. At this point you may not notice everything he is doing because of his proximity. Watch for him making excuses to touch you on your shoulder, your hair, your arm or your hands.