How to French Kiss

How to French Kiss

After having your first kiss, thoughts begin to turn to how to French kiss. Most of what you know about regular kissing applies to the French kiss. There are some tips you can follow, however, to improve your first French kissing experience.

Before you French Kiss

Before you French kiss someone for the first time, you should have already enjoyed regular kisses with each other first. Using your tongue is more intimate and requires greater comfort between two people.

If you suspect your partner may be a little shy about French kissing, you may want to talk about it before trying. Chances are your date is interested in eventually using his or her tongue. Your date may just need a little encouragement and support from you first. However, most often the first French kiss actually happens during the passion of the moment without any planning or discussion.

Instructions on How to French Kiss

Follow these instructions and tips on how to French kiss to help your first time go smoothly.

  • Moist Lips. Dry lips are no fun to kiss with or be kissed by. Lick your lips quickly before you kiss to moisten your lips. For continually smooth and moist lips, regularly use lip balm and drink plenty of water.
  • Move in at an Angle. When you approach your sweetheart to kiss, angle your head to one side. If you both move together straight on then your noses will bump into each other. While kissing it is ok to change sides for a little variety.
  • Don't Look. Most people close their eyes while kissing so they don't looked cross-eyed into their partners eyes. A brief look during the kiss is fine, but staring at each other during the kiss will likely kill the mood.
  • Start with a normal kiss. You never want to start French kissing immediately. The French needs to be worked up to and that is done with soft, closed-mouthed kisses. Think of those initial, tender kisses as foreplay that builds anticipation for the French kissing main event.
  • Knock on the door. When you decide to begin your French kiss, don't just jab your tongue into your partner's mouth. Knock on the door, so to speak, by slowing moving your tongue. Stop when you reach your partners lips and teeth to make sure your partner wants to begin French kissing. Chances are your date will enthusiastically respond in kind to your French kissing maneuver.
  • Explore. Now that the two of your French kissing, take the time to explore his or her mouth, tongue, lips and teeth. Find what you enjoy doing the most and see what your partner prefers as well.
  • Variety. Where you explore will add variety, but there are other ways as well. First, don't forget to return to normal kissing. The French kiss is great, but so is regular kissing. If you go back and forth between the two, you and your partner will avoid getting bored. Second, adjust the speed and strength of your tongue. Sometimes you'll want to vigorously explore your partner's mouth while other times you'll want to be more passive and let your partner take the lead.

Kissing Tips

Now that you know how to kiss, here are some additional tips to improve your kissing experience.

  • Breathe. Don't forget to breathe while kissing. You'll stay comfortable and be able to kiss longer. Breathe through your nose so that you won't have to stop your kiss to get some air.
  • Fresh Breath. No one likes to kiss someone with bad breath. Regularly brushing your teeth will help, but downing a breath mint moments before you kiss may also be necessary and appreciated.
  • Use your hands. Kissing isn't just about your mouth and tongue. It's a romantic gesture enjoyed by your whole body. Use your hands to caress and hold your partner to improve your overall French kissing technique.

Conclusion

Learning how to French kiss is easier than you think. Best of all, there really aren't many rules to follow. Enjoying yourselves is all that really matters.

How to French Kiss